Episode 50

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23rd Jun 2025

EP 50 How to Support a substance user Without Using Tough Love or Rock Bottom

Is “tough love” really helping your loved one recover — or making things worse?

If you’ve ever been told to cut off a struggling family member in the name of “tough love,” you’re not alone — but this approach could be pushing them further into danger instead of toward healing. In this episode, Kate Duffy, a seasoned family substance use expert, unpacks why this outdated advice often backfires and reveals a more compassionate and effective way to support recovery without losing yourself in the process.

  • Learn why “rock bottom” is a dangerous myth and how waiting for it can cost lives.
  • Understand how to replace harmful “tough love” with compassionate boundaries that protect you and truly help your loved one.
  • Discover practical first steps to regain your calm, stop the chaos, and support recovery more effectively.

Tune in now to find out how you can stop feeling helpless and start creating real change for your family today.

Discover more about Kate Duffy and her compassionate approach to family recovery at Tipping Point Recovery

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

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About the Podcast

Family Support In Addiction Recovery : Substance Abuse Disorder Tools Beyond Al- Anon
Substance Abuse Disorder Tools Beyond Al-Anon
Do you feel overwhelmed and emotionally drained, struggling to support your child with substance abuse disorder?

This podcast offers practical guidance for parents navigating the challenging journey of supporting a child battling addiction without losing themselves along the way.

Each week, you’ll gain critical insights and strategies, including:
Learning how to manage the emotional rollercoaster of addiction with effective coping tools.
Discover techniques to support your child while maintaining your own well-being, like setting boundaries or practising self-care routines.

Finding guidance on overcoming the unique challenges families face with substance abuse disorder.

Hosted by Paul King, a parent who’s been through this journey, made countless mistakes, and is here to help others find a clearer path forward, this show brings together experts in addiction recovery, emotional resilience, and family therapy to equip you with the knowledge and strength to keep going.

Episodes air twice a week: guest interviews on Mondays and personal reflection episodes on Wednesdays.
Ready to take the first step toward healing? Start with Episode 1, where it all begins.

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